People Share Their Best Break-Up Advice

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  1. Emily W

    Emily W7 日 前

    The best break up video on JPreporter

  2. Teh Jamez

    Teh Jamez10 日 前

    Yo danielle get at me girl, lemme nut on them honkers

  3. Don CorLeonen

    Don CorLeonen10 日 前

    2-6-2020 Time stamping just to see if after a year Ive progressed from my recent break up

  4. Hannah Lily

    Hannah Lily15 日 前

    I needed this. But even with the cheerful background music I still cried

  5. sister vlogs

    sister vlogs16 日 前

    "just focus on yourself nobody else-GO SERVE SOMEONE ELSE"

  6. Aristotle Paladin

    Aristotle Paladin22 日 前

    It was Christmas day that my ex told me that she have another man. and can not give me a chance because we are always fighting and she is tired, new year she posted a picture with her new man seemingly happy And I was there crying deeply in pain,On my birthday January 4, hoping that she will greet me but NO instead she posted a ticket of cinema together with her new and I was there deeply in pain again, haha But I realize Day by day that she is gone and I have to focus on myself. Now almost a month on no contact Even though the pain is still there but I feel better,focus on my family and career, eat healthy foods exercise acne are gone😁 I think God remove her from my life to save myself and my soul, When I am with her I almost lost myself forgot who I am really I forgot my family and friends. I know i will be better and happy in the future in Gods wil

  7. VeggieBurgerBabe

    VeggieBurgerBabe22 日 前

    The best advice I ever got was to write a list of reasons why things didn't work out. For me, I was in a toxic and manipulative relationship, so there were a lot of reasons not to go back. When you're grieving the loss of a relationship, it's easy for your mind to instantly go to all the reasons you miss them. You forget about everything else they did to you. So I wrote a list of reasons as to why things didn't work out, why he wasn't meant for me, all the things he did to me. When I felt the urge to reach out to him, I pulled that list out and read it over and over. I still read it now. We were together for five years, I thought we broke up for mutual reasons but I found out a week ago that he had been cheating on me and is now in a relationship with that girl. We broke up three months ago and I felt so in control most days, the hardest parts were over and I was doing well. Now it feels like breaking up all over again, because now I know the real reason he wanted to end it. If anyone needs to talk, if you want to rant or cry or just talk to someone in hopes of not feeling so lonely, message me. I got you. We'll get through this.

  8. Grant Goodman

    Grant Goodman25 日 前

    video made me cry but thanks

  9. Kitty Lover

    Kitty Loverヶ月 前

    I'm still grieving over my only best friend and first boyfriend who just dumped me out of the blue, it wasn't even a proper dump, he just left and when I called after a long time of waiting I asked if he missed me and it was a no...that broke my heart, I asked if he loved me he said something that gave me hope, I asked the next day, he says he thinks the feelings have washed down now, im trying to get over him but it's hard and cuz it was recent. It's hard going asleep knowing how alone I am, it's hard waking up knowing theres no one to greet or be greeted by. I'm not allowed to have bf and he was my first, Ideally my husband should've been my first. I was never interested in boys and for the first time I was I trusted my gut feelings and have evrything away (not my virginty tho thank god😂😂😂) ik tmi and it looks like I'm laughing about it now but tbh I really aint. I hope I can get over it seeing as others can, it's possible

  10. GodMentality

    GodMentalityヶ月 前

    Insight..it's all about self reflection. Any person who breaks up and points the finger only without looking at their own issues and toxic ways, will repeat and repeat the same ol' story, those who tend to say I found the perfect person USUALLY just found a co-dependent relationship. Be aware and of course love yourself enough to be real with yourself. Cheers

  11. Meiling :

    Meiling :ヶ月 前

    Best break up advice “the truth is, when u chase someone who doesn’t wanna be caught, u limit urself. u close urself off from the person who already wants you & knows you 100x better than who u chase. and as u keep chasing, u become unhappy by molding urself for someone who doesn’t even truly want u.”

  12. hello I'm ninooo

    hello I'm ninoooヶ月 前

    3:37 when you don't have best friends... Bruh

  13. Journey Watts

    Journey Wattsヶ月 前

    So, yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me.... He said he would rather date a rock! 😒 When we started dating he always said he loves me and he wanted to marry me... I. Hate. His. Guts! Fine someone better. If you can... 😝

  14. Anne J

    Anne Jヶ月 前

    It’s hard to forget someone when you still love each other, but the only way to save yourselves is to walk away from each other’s lives. Both of us weren’t mentally-stable and it was even worst for him. He’s in denial of getting therapy to get through it. It was a right love at the wrong time.

  15. TheSeattlegreen

    TheSeattlegreenヶ月 前

    Everyone laughed after every sentence.... Very annoying

  16. Samantha Howard

    Samantha Howardヶ月 前

    just got my first breakup 😢

  17. Satya Prakash Dash

    Satya Prakash Dashヶ月 前

    Don't force yourself to do anything that you won't do at your current mindset.

  18. Rohan Taylor

    Rohan Taylorヶ月 前

    Ha jokes on you guys, I’ll never know this pain because I can’t get a girlfriend in the first place

  19. basic bitch

    basic bitchヶ月 前

    he broke up with me on new year’s eve, i spent £100 on a present for him and got nothing in return

  20. nrs10001

    nrs10001ヶ月 前

    My birthday is a few days before christmas, I bought a promise ring and her favorite flowers and before I had the chance to give them to her out of nowhere right before my birthday she says "I'm going on a Christmas vacation with my family we'll have to exchange gifts when I get back in two weeks". So I think to myself I'll just run her gift up to her before she leaves in the morning and surprise her with them on her doorstep when she wakes up. Next day while I'm at work(yesterday) she texts me and says "I dont want our relationship to continue". It came out of nowhere

  21. Reem H

    Reem Hヶ月 前

    It hurt

  22. Kiersten Rossing

    Kiersten Rossingヶ月 前

    just broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year today. scared i won’t find someone else like him again.

  23. Habon Hajira

    Habon Hajiraヶ月 前

    My best break up advice is don’t spend any time with yourself. Go sign up for that extra class , say yes to whatever your friends doing , find new hobbies. You will thank yourself later 😁

  24. Narisa Amel

    Narisa Amel2 ヶ月 前

    The worse is when you initiated the breakup so 😔

  25. Carys Hummel

    Carys Hummelヶ月 前

    I had two breaks ups with the same guy in the same relationship. He broke up with me, I took him back because I wasn't over him, I had to break up with him because the whole relationship long I had been so unhappy, I doubted myself and thought everything I did around him was a mistake. It was unhealthy, it was getting toxic but I was so obsessed with this guy that it's so hard not to think about what could have been and leave out all his flaws and thinking I need him and all that.

  26. e.donatahiri

    e.donatahiri2 ヶ月 前

    my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and i miss him.

  27. Aliss D

    Aliss Dヶ月 前

    e.donatahiri if he asked for another chance again would you go back?

  28. e.donatahiri

    e.donatahiri2 ヶ月 前

    @LetsGetActiveAgain hey, i'm so sorry.

  29. LetsGetActiveAgain

    LetsGetActiveAgain2 ヶ月 前

    e.donatahiri 18 days ago for me. I miss mine as well. 3 years gone just like that

  30. Holy Cas

    Holy Cas2 ヶ月 前

    He broke up with me and made fun of me with his friends. Now I will have to leave a hobby that I really love because of him and his friends. Everyone from that club knows and I feel awful

  31. katelin smith

    katelin smith2 ヶ月 前

    Hey guys, so I'm having a hard time if your 13-15 please add me on Instagram because I need to talk to someone my Instagram is @katelinsmith56

  32. LaJette Holland

    LaJette Holland2 ヶ月 前

    DON'T b 😥 change is Good i like who I am afterwards stronger& wiser..u came in this 🌎 alone u will leave this 🌎 alone..every1 is a lesson or blessing on borrowed TIME LIVE & think they loss

  33. Moonlight babe

    Moonlight babe2 ヶ月 前

    My boyfriend broke up with me today. He said we were good as friends but after everything we did there’s no way that could happen. I think he only liked me for my body and let his emotions lead to the random out of nowhere break up

  34. Clarissa G

    Clarissa G2 ヶ月 前

    Me and him broke up over 2 years ago and it still hurts.

  35. a W

    a W2 ヶ月 前

    Clarissa Guadagno I know the feeling.. 5 years ago for me and I think about him all the time

  36. John Smith

    John Smith2 ヶ月 前

    Ok .... here's a SAD fact.The person you love has the potential to make you to HAPPIEST you've EVER been.... and that SAME one has the SAME potential to make you the SADDEST you've EVER been. One thing that I did that helped me ...when on that rollercoaster of emotions in the first few weeks... when I would just lose it and cry.....(yes,REAL men shed REAL tears, when we lose someone we REALLY love) was this.I gathered up her pictures that I had put out.... and cleaned out my phone. I put the pictures in a drawer. Then I sat down and wrote a list.... on paper... of every bad emotion that she had brought out in me. Hurt,Anger,Doubt, Confusion...mabey even Distrust or Jealousy.WHATEVER you end up with on your list....your partner was FAR from being perfect. When we are put into that grieving mode.... our brains tend to trick us into forgetting,or worse yet.... rationalizing all of the bad. So when you lose it... and pull that drawer open to see their pictures.... take a moment...read that list.....remember. It DOES HELP. It helped me...... Stay strong Brothers and Sisters. You're on your way to someone BETTER!

  37. soyboy

    soyboy2 ヶ月 前

    was so sad everyone in this was straight

  38. Dafne Martinez

    Dafne Martinez2 ヶ月 前

    i got broken up with last night

  39. Bella Marinelli

    Bella Marinelli2 ヶ月 前

    the only thing that hurts the most is when he makes you feel special, he’s the only one who actually likes you and then he sends you a video of him throwing your scrunchies on the floor and his friends clapping behind him. I can tell he didn’t want to do it but it’s a thing his friends do every year for a month, they don’t date anyone. when he makes you feel great, happy, and just like everything’s ok. welp now that’s gone

  40. Blitz girl

    Blitz girl2 ヶ月 前

    I'm glad I found this cause I just went through a breakup today and I actually loved him, he did back but the reason we broke up was because he would overthink stuff and since I would always chat with boys about memes he would think I would cheat on him so it kinda broke my heart but it took me a while to understand I'm trying my best to not bring it up but its gonna hurt me for a while so I actually don't want any likes I just want a nice comment if it's not much to ask Like my sister-in-law had told me before "Love is something not easy but not hard it take a while to get over it. Some relationships won't last for ever but some will. Dont always expect everything to go your way, just live life like you can."

  41. mrinal jayan

    mrinal jayan2 ヶ月 前

    I got over you anusha

  42. nobody

    nobody2 ヶ月 前

    *pIzZa HeLpS wItH eVeRyThInG*

  43. Ray Munashe

    Ray Munashe2 ヶ月 前

    My ex-girlfriend just broke up with me yesterday and this video just popped up

  44. Hang My Mai Huynh

    Hang My Mai Huynh2 ヶ月 前

    Funny how when he cheated on me , i did go into a shocked phase but still , i forgave him . And then he dumped me later on saying he's too tired of everything . But still till this day , i don't have any hate or anger for him in my heart . Sometimes now i still remember all the good times we had but i know in the end that i treated him too good and that i was too good for him .

  45. Klara Sofia

    Klara Sofia2 ヶ月 前

    just me who’s here because of a recent breakup??

  46. Hira shakeel

    Hira shakeel2 ヶ月 前

    My boyfriend just left me and I’m deeply in love with him, losing him is like losing my best friend and I don’t know what’s even happening anymore. I knew he was going to do it because I had an instinctive feeling, I kept brushing it off. Big mistake. Hit me like s truck

  47. holdon itwillpass

    holdon itwillpass19 日 前

    @Savannah26889 Thats insane. My now-ex is also 21. Its my first serious relationship also... Interesting the coincedence haha. Maybe you are right. I still miss him and love him so much, but I am also starting to realize that he never would have changed. He always gave me excuses and never told me. I had to basicly beg for a conversion. What helped you get over him?

  48. Savannah26889

    Savannah2688919 日 前

    holdon itwillpass oh yeah...... legit same exact situation. I just think they got scared. How old is he? Mine was 21. First serious relationship. I need a man anyways. One who isn’t afraid to talk and feel emotions. Otherwise imagine for the rest of our lives us begging them to talk and always feeling like they wanna leave. It’s. A blessing in disguise and we will both slowly start realizing that. It’ll take awhile. I’m still a wreck too. Take it day by day. What I keep telling myself everyday is “a mans rejection is gods protection” 👏🏻💃🏻

  49. holdon itwillpass

    holdon itwillpass19 日 前

    @Savannah26889 wow thats exactly what happend with me as well. I tried so hard to get him to talk about his feelings and why I started feeling more and more distance between us but he never answered straight always avoiding. Looking back I should have known. It hit me like a pile of bricks when he broke up saying he didnt love me enough. It hurts so much right now. I tried everything in my power to get him to talk and fight for us but he just gave up. I am still asking myself, what if...

  50. Savannah26889

    Savannah2688919 日 前

    holdon itwillpass the amount of chances I gave him to communicate is honestly offensive to my own self respect. He lied every time I asked him how he was feeling. He lied so much for months, even though he told me what I wanted to hear. We deserve people who will communicate and who are willing to grow with us 👌🏻👏🏻

  51. Joyce Hookimaw

    Joyce Hookimaw2 ヶ月 前

    Journaling does help a lot.

  52. M M

    M M2 ヶ月 前

    I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. I sort of expected it because it was too good to be true. I'm not angry, just disappointed... however, my calmness scares me as hope it wouldn't transform into rage later on 😂 My first break up, some 4 years ago, was insane. I could have easily been locked down to the mad house 😂 but my therapist helped me. I can say that the best advice is to put yourself first but not in a selfish way and if things don't work out, just move on because it will always be ok in the end.

  53. Taylor Gage

    Taylor Gage3 ヶ月 前

    I had my first break up a few days ago…it’s pure crap

  54. Joshua Spartans

    Joshua Spartans3 ヶ月 前

    Taylor Gage sane bro and it hurts so bad man

  55. Zoe Ursula

    Zoe Ursula3 ヶ月 前

    Just broke up with my first love of 4 years. I work as a midwife and I’ve been picking up extra shifts..... just trying to work work work and distract. Never thought emotional pain could manifest physically. There’s some days I don’t even want to keep going I am so sad- that’s why I work.

  56. Es ma

    Es ma3 ヶ月 前

    It’s been 5 months since I broke up with my first boyfriend (of 10 months) and I still cry every day lol :-)

  57. Ramon Castillo

    Ramon Castillo3 ヶ月 前

    Yes! Pizza

  58. Rachel Anne Mendoza

    Rachel Anne Mendoza3 ヶ月 前

    Just got dumped and he wants to be friends and I want to but it kinda hurts arghhhhh

  59. Hannah

    Hannah3 ヶ月 前

    Take your time and space away from him. I thought I wanted to be friendly with my ex but a few weeks later I was definitely thinking NOPE

  60. Neo Gbfe

    Neo Gbfe3 ヶ月 前

    Best thing is most breakups are predictable, especially when we pay attention. Though breakups still hurt, individuals that try and stay friends do themselves a disservice. Not saying you cant, I just think its unhealthy to go back to feelings that caused pain and severe stress. Its better to move on than to wish hope and feed into lies. When we can meet healthy people and find new relationships. Better to say goodbye than try and remember you never have been hurt or manipulated.

  61. John Smith

    John Smith3 ヶ月 前

    Yeah.... You will grieve like the person died.... And what makes it hurt even worse.... is trying to accept that they no longer love you... And yes....REAL men cry REAL tears... when they REALLY love someone and lose them....

  62. Sarvinoz

    Sarvinoz3 ヶ月 前

    Definitely take your time. Don’t hop from one relationship to another without getting over your ex, don’t drag new people into your mess.

  63. Flowergirl Xx

    Flowergirl Xx3 ヶ月 前

    The best way to get over someone is to get under someone heheh

  64. Lily Jones

    Lily Jones3 ヶ月 前

    “Turn to the things you love most” .... it was him

  65. The Stig

    The Stig3 ヶ月 前

    God i miss my ex so much!!! She was my best friend!! The dude here with the curly hair really helped me the most!!! Such a good dude and speaked so clearly for me!!!

  66. Virtual Chocolate

    Virtual Chocolate3 ヶ月 前

    Broke up today. Feeling sad.

  67. Mirian Bonifacio

    Mirian Bonifacio3 ヶ月 前

    I’m in so much pain rn 😕 my boyfriend just broke up with me but ik that I’ll be get over it eventually. I’m strong.. I think

  68. glitterycereal

    glitterycereal4 日 前

    Mirian Bonifacio me too, get better soon x

  69. Fefi the swift

    Fefi the swift6 日 前

    Mirian Bonifacio i hope you are better

  70. Hafsa Khan

    Hafsa Khan4 ヶ月 前

    I like that cute chubby girl😁😍

  71. Rio DeLuca

    Rio DeLuca4 ヶ月 前

    Barely been a month for mine, JPreporter how do you know me so well?!?

  72. Alex Garcia

    Alex Garcia4 ヶ月 前

    Just check my breakup video on my channel. It’s just a easy way to cope

  73. Sun_ Flower

    Sun_ Flower4 ヶ月 前

    My first boyfriend was bi and turns out we had a great relationship. Then a few months later 11 months. I said i love you and a few weeks later my friends. Told me that he had a crush on someone and it was true. It was a dude so that day my heart was crushed and it took me like 3 days to get over him. Some reason hes mad at me. So he blocked my number for no reason. So the next day he ends up saying hes gay? I was hurt and all but i understand what hes going through so i forgive him even though hes not even talking to me... Thats how my first relationship turned out... Im so happy to be single again that relationship was stressful. I hope he's happy and doing ok.

  74. Indigo Summers

    Indigo Summers4 ヶ月 前

    she was perfect... yesterday, I was hanging out with her and two of my other friends, she seemed a bit off. She was just acting strange, like something was on her mind, but she couldn't say it. Eventually, she had to go home, I had planed on staying the night at my other friends house (the other two are twins.), when i got to their house, one of them gave me her phone and told me to read what was in the notes... it was a breakup letter from my girlfriend. She didn't even do it in person. The thing is, I still love her. She was, and is, and will always be my everything.